Damn, this is spot-on. It also just reminds me of how the media recycles old ideas over and over and never adds anything new to them. The same has happened with this trope. And it is scary how in order to achieve this status, we’re expected to strip ourselves of qualities we may even like about ourselves…and how does this fit with out sky-high beauty standards? We all know damn well that even if someone is a “cool girl” to the T, she still needs to be beautiful, thin, large-breasted, etc.