It’s time to get what we deserve –a healthy relationship full of love and respect!
Whether you found a significant other you want to spend the rest of your life with or you are single as a Pringle; I’m going to need you to take a step back. Take a long, hard look in the mirror. You worked too hard to get to where you are. You cried too much over stupid boys or stupid girls in middle school. You tried too hard to impress that certain someone in your past. You have spent countless nights feeling like you are worthless and that you will never find the right person.
When it comes to love, you have been through hell and back. I am here to tell you that you WILL have a happy ending to your love story, as long as you give yourself the chance to have a happy ending. Before you can allow yourself to have a positive and healthy love life, you must know your worth. You must know what you deserve. In order to do this, you have to be a bit heartless. It is time that you get fed up with people who waste your time or do not treat you right. Say goodbye to any and all toxic people in your life! You deserve the best. Let me repeat myself, you deserve the best. Until you firmly believe that statement, you will not find Mr. or Mrs. Right. When people begin believing that they deserve better and start to ignore the shitty people in their life, they become happier. Stop making excuses for people who walk all over you or people who put your feelings as their last priority.
Us girls have to stick together. It is time to stand up for what we deserve. We deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and thoughtfulness ALL THE TIME, not just sometimes. I like to think about it this way, if you had a daughter and she dated someone who did not treat her right, it would break your heart. We all have parents or families or friends who love us and want us to be treated with respect. You are in control of the decisions you make and it is time to make the RIGHT decisions for yourself! Realize your self-worth comes from within and it is not something that anyone else can do for you, you have to do it for yourself. It may take time, but girl, is it worth it!
Once you realize your worth, life becomes a lot easier. Just remember, if you do not have respect for yourself, no one will have respect for you! It sounds harsh but it is some of the best advice I can give you! Do not let your significant-other talk down to you or make jokes that hurt your feelings. It is time to stand up to people who undermine our feelings and do not have the utmost respect for us! No more bullshit–get to know your worth.