Hey all, I know this is a day many people dread over the course of your lifetime. I know it adds pressure to an already important issue of “am I really comfortable telling all my friends, family, doctors, and animals I’m really into girls?” Today is National Coming Out Day, and I am amazed to say that I have come pretty far since venturing into college life. I remember my father visiting my freshman year on this day, and I remember doing everything in my power not to introduce him to my gay friends. It’s been 4 years and he still doesn’t know.
This is a happy occasion for some, but for many it brings forth the fact that coming out is a never-ending process of anxiety and stress. I feel the shame running through me as I think to myself “Is this the year I come out to my dad?” The answer? I’m still not sure about that. Coming out used to be a painful experience for me, I received many comments such as “I will pray for you” and “I will never be able to support your choices.” Sometimes I would be met with awkward silence, and realize quickly that some friends will forever stay silent, as long as it is to your face.
Coming out should be a freeing experience, a chance to express yourself and feel free for who you are. People should accept you, love you, and I hope everyone who chooses to make their day a day to remember by bursting from the closet has a blast doing so. I support all of you.
ShoutOut! James Madison University 
I’m glad someone wrote about National Coming Out Day! I know for many people that it’s very difficult and it can be filled with hesitation and fear of rejection. I know that today is the “National” day but I also know that for the majority of people it’s a never ending process, a topic to bring up with each person that you meet and a fear that once told they just wouldn’t understand. Hopefully, one day we will not have to have a National Coming Out Day because there will be no need.
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