Sociological Enlightenment and My Path to Feminism

Enlightenment within the Buddhist philosophy is defined as “attainment of spiritual knowledge or insight which frees a person from the cycle of rebirth.”  Isn’t that just beautiful?  Looking at enlightenment from this perspective truly makes me believe that, through sociological mindfulness and feminist thought, there is a possibility of dismantling all the forms of social inequality within our culture such as patriarchy, sexism, homophobia, white supremacy, etc.men and women symbolically equal

My first year here at JMU I had never had a moment in my life that I would consider enlightening, nothing majorly mind altering had ever happened to me.  Before sociology, I wasn’t passionate about anything, I didn’t have an aspect of my education that made me want to get out of bed and I wasn’t excited to go to class.  I randomly decided that sociology would be a useful major in the general scheme of getting a job out of college…but it turned out that I was completely unaware of the fires sociology could and would spark in my life.

My first exposure to sociology that spring semester of my sophomore year was life changing.  I began to see the social world in a whole new light; I began to understand how every institution, ideology and set of cultural values were socially constructed.  This concept of social construction made so much sense, yet had never occurred to me as a reason why we act and think the way we do.  My professor placed a major emphasis on the social construction of gender and how masculinity and femininity dictate our social interactions and expectations.  He was a very passionate feminist which, at the time, was a foreign concept to me.  I thought feminists were man-hating lesbians that burned their bras and never wore make-up…which I soon learned was exactly what I had been socialized to think: enlightenment.  I honestly think I’ve always had my feminist opinions and tendencies but to label them as feminist was the biggest struggle because society uses the term in a negative manner to  suppress female empowerment.

I think Marilyn Frye’s birdcage metaphor was an eye-opening moment for me because I had never imagined the extent to which I was affected by the systematic networks of oppression.  I honestly can’t understand how a woman wouldn’t claim to be a feminist when you define the concept at the fundamental level as a goal of attaining economic, political and social equality. Through my sociology and women’s studies courses I began to learn the statistics and the facts…they’re facts for a reason.  Was it a coincidence that in almost all of these scenarios of gendered violence in our society, men were the perpetrators and women were the victims?  Not in a patriarchal society, which is why the basic concept behind radical feminism is so appealing because it proposes that you can’t just be equal, there will always be the patriarchal foundation which dictates how we view men and women within our culture.

domestic violence stats
Feminist enlightenment.

Embracing feminism and accepting a feminist perspective of the world through a sociological lens has been the ultimate enlightenment.  It’s a breath of fresh air to feel so liberated and empowered and shameless.  I am proud to be a woman, no one can deny me that right and I will fight for it.   I am not ashamed of my body, my height, my sexuality or my sex drive, as a matter of fact.  I know that within our culture there is language that reinforces violence and sexism.  I am not afraid to say no.  I know that I have the right to give my consent.  I know that if I wear a short skirt and heels that I am not ‘asking’ to get raped.  I know that no matter the circumstances the victim is never to blame.  I know that I live in a rape culture in which I have been socialized to understand that I am susceptible to the possibility of sexual assault and to fear it at all times.  I know that as a white, heterosexual, middle-class person I am privileged but I also know that as a woman I am oppressed.  I am enlightened and I am a feminist.

7 thoughts on “Sociological Enlightenment and My Path to Feminism

  1. I’m glad to see that feminist concepts are discussed in other majors. Sociology is a great place to introduce concepts. I hope that other people gain the insight that you did. Great post!

    Like

  2. This was an awesome post! I love that you discussed institutional social construction and then continued on to explain its effects. I think that sociology inspires feminist thought, but also that feminism encourages sociological thinking by means of studying the intersectionality of oppression in identities outside of your own. I also loved your empowered ownership of your identities and your recognition of privilege. Thanks so much for sharing!

    Like

    1. Thank you! I definitely think sociology reinforces feminist thought and vice versa. In my interpersonal violence class we’ve been talking about activism through allies who are members of the dominant privileged groups that stand up for the oppressed groups. Even though as a woman I suffer from oppression, I thought I should recognize that I am definitely privileged in many aspects of my life.

      Like

  3. “I honestly can’t understand how a woman wouldn’t claim to be a feminist when you define the concept at the fundamental level as a goal of attaining economic, political and social equality” – this statement really stood out to me! no matter what your grasp of feminism may be, at a basic level it is equality in all aspects. How can you argue against that?

    Like

    1. Exactly! It’s amazing how some people will agree with this statement but still deny that they are a feminist. This really stems from the social stigma attached to the idea of being a feminist that makes people hesitant to identify as one.

      Like

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s