In my humble opinion, nothing brings folks with seemingly varying backgrounds all together quite like the topic of sex. Aside from breathing and eating, and setting aside any wise crack on potty humor, what’s more universal than human sexuality?
The feminist view on sex adds another interesting element to the already juicy conversation. So when I got together with a few feminist pals for a couple of drinks and some X-rated conversation topics, sex was obviously on the discussion list. More specifically, what’s the feminist take on porn?
The answers were as varied as the range of options in the Kama Sutra. One thing we did agree on, though, is that we’ve all watched porn. However, we all had different ideas as to “where the line is drawn.” For some, good ole’ mainstream hetero porn is enough to get the job done. Others got into more debatable types. Rough sex, light bondage, heavy bondage–where can one really draw the line? Where does consensual, albeit deviant, intercourse end, and a serious threat to one of the parties (generally the woman, in hetero porn, but there are exceptions) begins?
Thus the topic of conversation for this week is introduced. It’s a tricky topic, to be sure, and I’m not sure how I feel about it quite yet. To start, I want to share this link with you, and welcome any comments on where you think the line is drawn? Is all porn validated as sexual expression? Is it all degrading and a violation of consent? If only some is acceptable, where can we draw a definitive line–or is that even possible? Let me know what your thoughts are on the matter, and stay tuned for my post Friday, where I’ll give a more in-depth analysis of your opinions, and maybe come to a more conclusive stance on it myself.
@Ladychaotica21
Dworkin has the long answer for you.
-Andrea Dworkin:Pornography – Men Possessing Women. pp. 200-201.
Shorter less convoluted answer: Porn is never a valid expression of female sexuality.
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Oh, more quoted stuff, this time from Gail Dines.
— Gail Dines, Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality
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I think this is all great content. Great feasibility for all – Jana Sokale, Stevens Creek Trail Psychiatric Associates, Sunnyvale CA
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