Diversity Conference

Today I was privileged enough to attend the first half of the diversity conference. Being a member of Madison Equality, I was asked to be on a panel of LGBT members to share my story. The panel was a “safezone” panel which differs from a classroom panel in that it caters to faculty and staff. These faculty and staff members get briefed on topics such as transgender 101, inclusive language, how to react to someone who comes out to you, and how to deal with many other queer issues. Once you, the faculty or staff member, has attended a Safezone panel, you become certified. You sign a contract and get a sticker to put on your door, in your classroom, on your mailbox, etc. This image serves as a visual aid to all LGBT people so that they know that this person is a safe person to talk to, and this classroom/office/house/whatever it may be, is a safe space.  The sticker looks like this:

If you have seen this image before, that’s good. That means they’re somewhat common. Depending on which department you spend most of your time in, you may never have seen one. I know that in my department, Justice Studies, most professors actually are Safezone certified. However, if you find yourself frequenting Roop, you may have never seen this sticker. That is not to say that I think Math people are homophobic, I don’t. Maybe some are, but I would never make that assumption. I certainly think a lot of the Math professors are busy, though. That could potentially be the top reason. It could be a million different reasons. Perhaps our [i.e. LGBT community] is lacking in the visibility aspect. Perhaps they don’t know the Safezone panels exist. It could be anything.

I digress. The Diversity Conference panel turnout was larger than most safezone panels, but not nearly as large as I had expected considering this week is the Diversity Conference. To quickly explain, the Diversity Conference is a day long event in which faculty and staff members, as well as graduate students and some undergraduates, participate in workshops to better educate themselves on diversity. The workshops are facilitated by people who are very well-versed on each topic. The mission of the Diversity Conference is

To assist and lead in creating an inclusive environment for Faculty, Staff and Students.

I only stayed until lunch (which was DELICIOUS!) but the event seemed to be going pretty well. However, it was lacking in some areas. Perhaps to be expected, perhaps not.

For lunch, individuals signed up to sit at a table based on the topic of discussion at each table. The topics stretched from ethnic diversity issues such as black issues in the community to sexuality issues such as LGBT issues in the community. There were tables for the topic of Veterans, Obama and Healthcare, and many, many other diverse groups had a lunch table discussion, as well.

Each table had a pretty great turnout. Grrrir (who also attended the panel discussion)  and I didn’t have time to sign up for a table so we tried to find a table that had two seats left. Almost every table was full, except one. We sat at that table. What topic do you think that table covered? Nope, not women’s issues. That table was actually pretty well attended.

The table that had seats left was LGBT issues. Grrrir and I sat down, along with one other gay identified male and one girl that we both knew from having been in Madison Equality in her undergrad. The facilitator of the discussion was also a gay male, and there were two other people at the table. One was Joanne Carr, Vice President of the Division of University Advancement, and the other mans name escapes me. However, he had a very important title, as well.

It was nice to see Dr. Carr and this other man trying to educate themselves on LGBT issues. To open the discussion, Dr. Carr asked a simple, yet its answer lies in hundreds of years of history and could not be pinpointed to just one thing. She said, “I signed up for this table because no one else had. Why do you think no one wanted to sit at this table?”. Then something dawned on me. I care about these issues because I am LGBT, as well as most of the other members at this lunch table. Other people who enjoy heterosexual privilege on a daily basis do not even think about these issues. Much of it, in  my opinion, has to do with the fact that the visibility is lacking.
Consider the generation gap. Our generation, as college students, seem to be more accepting of the LGBT community. The generation that the majority of the faculty and staff fall in dealt with different issues. Those issues most often catered to people of color. When you look at the JMU community, you can see people of color. They’re there, you cannot ignore skin color. You can’t miss it. Now look at the JMU  community and try to find the gay community. Stereotyping how gay identified people dress or cut their hair may not help you. You might just sound like an asshole when you assume a girl with short hair is a lesbian come to find out she’s been in a relationship with a man for five years. Anyways, my point is that the visibility aspect isn’t “natural”. To let people know you are queer identified, you have to tell them. There has to be some sort of dialogue for confirmation. To let people know you are black, you can walk past them. Perhaps faculty and staff thinks that LGBT rights isn’t the issue of most concern because the population doesn’t seem as prevalent. I don’t think putting oppression into a hierarchy of importance is going to help anyone, but people need to realize just how important these issues actually are. Visibility needs to take a new form.
We also brought up the idea of the term “diversity”. Grrrir shared that when she thinks of diversity, she immediately thinks of the non-discrimination policy and what that entails. Sexual orientation is in the non-discrimination policy. Gender-identity is not. Do transgenders not matter in the fight for equal rights? They didn’t even have a fucking table at this conference. I, for one, think that’s bullshit. Transgender issues need to be discussed on a much larger scale and hit a lot more communities. A lot of people don’t know much about the topic. As a matter of fact, a gay male that was in my Safezone panel (who knows a lot about LGB issues) said he was glad we talked about being trasngender because he actually wasn’t aware of most of the issues we covered. He was glad he had the opportunity to learn a lot. I also must point out that WordPress is putting a red, squiggly line under the word “Transgender” as I type it. No, this is not a typo, WordPress. Tansgender is a word. This is the shit I’m talking about. The transgender movement needs to move forward because they have taken a really shitty backseat to other issues.

Back to the issue of the diversity. We talked about how when most people think of diversity, they think of ethnic diversity. Probably because those movements are further along than the Gay Rights Movement. Maybe people do think of the LGBT community but just don’t care. It’s really hard to generalize. I can only speak for myself, but, alas, it was disheartening, if not disempowering, that the LGBT table was so small.

These leaves me with two questions:

What do you think of when you think of diversity?
and
How can certain groups become more visible/What do they have to do to be noticed?

2 thoughts on “Diversity Conference

  1. Being a lesbian and pretty involved with the LGBT community, the first thing that comes to mind when I think about diversity is LGBT people and how much we are marginalized. It is true though that it is much more common for people to think only of race when they think about diversity. That is something that you can obviously see when you look at a person and so there is no way to pretend that it does not exist. When it comes to LGBT people, it is easy for others to pretend that we are not there (or simply forget) just because they do not see us all the time. We are not really on their minds.

    I think we should definitely work to create more awareness and put ourselves out there as much as possible. We need to make it so that people cannot forget about us. I think that the panels we do for the JMU community are definitely a good start, especially the classroom ones because many of the students who need this education the most are the ones who would not seek it out on their own but who may be forced to sit through a panel in a class. I think that educating the faculty and staff is equally important because they can also pass that knowledge on to their students, but I am also aware that the faculty and staff we talk to are the ones who are already more accepting.

    The problem with being more visible is that there is so much of a risk of violence. Being too open about being LGBT is a very scary thing because while it is possible that nothing will happen, it is also possible to be harassed, maybe even violently. The truth is that because it is so easy for us to hide, the natural thing is to do just that to protect ourselves. Because of that, I think it will continue to be a slow process of us working to educate people and create more and more awareness without putting ourselves in physical danger. I wish it wasn’t that way and that people would not resort to violence, but unfortunately this is how it is.

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    1. You make a very good point. However, and call me naive, but I think that strength in numbers could be very beneficial. If the entire LGBT community of JMU worked at making themselves visible then one person would have an extremely difficult time being violent toward that whole group. I also don’t think that many individuals would all rally together to take down the whole LGBT community. I’m not saying there wouldn’t be comments made, street harassment in general, looks given, etc..but I don’t think it would turn to violence. Not if the numbers are large enough. Think of rallying an entire group just because you hate a community. That sounds so exhausting. I think the JMU community, though not accepting, does not even care enough either way to do that. I could be wrong, for sure. Maybe I have too much faith in the deep down goodhearted-ness of people, but I just can’t conceptualize that. Also, I think this could be related to street harassment for women. Holly Kearl, the feminist speaker that was discussed in an earlier blog, maintains a few ways to deal with street harassment. One of the ways, as mentioned in her lecture, was to simply turn around and tell the harasser you didn’t hear what he said, and ask him to repeat it. The act of repetition makes the harasser feel/sound stupid. A jokes never funny when repeated, is it? Well, neither is an attack on a victim. Of course, this method is not fool-proof. But I think this could work when an LGBT identified person is being called a “faggot” or whatever the awful term is. I’m getting slightly off topic, but my point is this: Fear cannot be a reason to not be active. There is fear in both the oppressed and the privileged. The oppressed are afraid of violence, the privileged are afraid of losing their status or that people will think they are actually a part of the oppressed. Fear can’t hold us back. If fear gets in the way, society as a whole will never move forward.

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